April
“Then you should say what you mean,” the
March Hare went on.
“
I do,” Alice hastily replied; “at least—at
least I mean what I say—that’s the same
thing, you know.” “Not the same thing a
bit!” said the Hatter. “Why you might just
as well say that ‘I see what I eat’ is
the same thing as ‘I eat what I see’!” Lewis
Carroll, Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland. Mean
what you say. In professional, as in all relationships,
credibility is key. If you don’t mean it or can’t
back up your word with action, don’t say it.
If you tell people something, most will take you at
your word, and be sorely disappointed if you don’t
keep it. In all things, whether they are small and
great, it matters. Whether you tell someone you’ll
meet with them from 4 to 5, or that your product will
be ready at a specific time, or your service will meet
their need, or their commitment of time and money will
make a difference in society, your word is your pledge.
Offering a “money back guarantee” or a “cross
my heart, and hope to die” does not build credibility.
It implies that people really might not be able to
take you at your word. Standing on your laurels won’t
do it either. Even if you’ve won the Nobel Prize
or the adulation of the best in your field, if you’ve
told little fibs or big fat lies or can’t deliver
what you’ve promised or advertised, your credibility
is damaged.
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